Teachings
Sexy & Supersized vs. Simple Sustainable Self-Care
I’ve scaled pyramids and sacred sites, attended monthly meditation retreats for over a decade, and luxuriated at 5-star spas. I’ve travelled the globe with world famous shamans and twisted into advanced poses with master yogis and yoginis. (That's me at the pyramids...
Shifting and Shaking
The past year+ has been a doozy - not just for me, but for so many people I know. Big moves. New careers. Losing loved ones. Health challenges. (Or all of the above). How have you been faring? My world shifted and was shaken through – moving to another state, closing...
How to Create Sacred Silent Time for Yourself – and Your Sanity
As a working mama, I absolutely adore time to myself. Particularly quiet time to myself. And while meditating feels delicious - it’s like pushing the reset button for me, I often didn’t make time to do it…. until life became so intense that I had no choice. During my...
Conquering the Conflict Behind Speaking Your Truth
As a recovering good girl, I like when people are happy with me – which means my first tendency is to shrink away from telling hard truths. Yet speaking the truth – about how you really feel, what you really want, or what your intuition is telling you, can bring great...
From Annoyed to AWESOME in 2 Steps
“How are you?” A seemingly simple question, and yet the answer often eludes me. Am I annoyed? Or is life AWESOME? Depends on my point of view. Over the holidays, I bonked. Too much sugar, wheat, activity, presents, lights. I went down into that grumpy, annoyed,...
RIP: Shaman Girl is Dead
I’ll never forget the day, a few years ago, when a friend and 1st time client exclaimed to me, “You present yourself as this cute suburban mom, but really you’re a big honkin’ shaman!” For many years I hid behind that mask of the cute suburban mom. Calling myself...
What My Gravity-Defying Baby Can Teach You About Goals & Deadlines
Six months ago my daughter Téa was a blob. Cute, but utterly helpless. Then, like all babies, she performed a miraculous gravity-defying feat. She learned to sit up. In watching her process, she became my superhero and role model in how to achieve goals and meet...
Mothering is a Marathon
I wheeled out of the driveway this past weekend with the sounds of the baby crying and Bodhi grumbling about me going to see a “poopyhead” friend. (Gotta love 7 year old insults.) I did not feel one iota of guilt because a.) I knew the baby would be fine in a few...
Creating a Better Life Sucks
Become More Successful! Happier! Healthier! Find the Perfect Partner! The personal growth/spiritual path is filled with seductive promises of a better life. And while I’m all for more authenticity, contentment, passion, peace or purpose – whatever your heart desires,...
Soul or Role(s)?
“I have a lot on my plate!” my beloved said with a bit of edge. “So do I!” I countered. “No, you don’t,” he retorted. And then a whole dream shattered… While it was tempting to point the finger of blame and become indignant about how Jamie wasn’t seeing or valuing me,...